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I wish him all the best. He just didn't find what he was looking for here and that's such a shame. Not the fault of the site or membership though.
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Catapultam habeo. Nisi pecuniam omnem mihi dabis, ad caput tuum saxum immane mittam - I have a catapult. Give me all your money, or I will fling an enormous rock at your head. |
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I am saddened that this thread has descended further in its tone and content and I have asked Phil to post this for me in an effort to bring the matter to a close as I am unable to post. I think the whole thing needs stopping in its tracks before it does any more damage.
I would just like to reassure everybody that what has been stated is news to me! I swear to you all that I don’t know what has gone on or what has been said or by whom, the only contact I have had is with Dave C and Jerry, both members who have no axe to grind. As far as my participation on the forum, please understand that I have been of a mind to withdraw from it for some time now and the latest incident was just the clincher as I felt that my participation in the hobby was getting out of hand to the detriment of other areas of my life. Please be assured that I hold no grudge against Andy on either a personal or a business level and I sincerely hope that whoever has it in for Andy is not acting in any misguided way on what they think is my behalf. The public apology I made to Andy was sincere and I hoped that it would be an end to the matter between us. As for me deleting threads and getting banned from the forum I know that to many it will seem churlish but it was my wish to withdraw completely and that meant burning my bridges, which is what I seem to have achieved. I did this so there was no way back for me, Andy’s threat of legal action was a wakeup call and I never want to find myself in that position again, at least not as a result of a hobby! I know that Andy has not mentioned me by name in his posts but anyone reading them is likely to get the impression that I am behind some sort of campaign to discredit him which of course is definitely not the case. I of course am no longer able to post anything in my defence and I am grateful to Phil for accepting my request to post this message for me. Ry
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[Re: recently deleted post from this thread] We do from time to time on here and every popular forum get the odd individual pop up that appears to have a head full of barking dogs. It is worth keeping this in mind as new posters get going, and do not be put off if someone appears to be having a psychotic episode and/or is just trolling for a reaction. They will be removed and then we can carry on with the discussion of military insignia. Personally I can take that sort of thing in my stride and actually have a laugh about it. Although I must admit if some of these characters are real, and out there walking the streets then it is a bit unnerving. If you can get that abusive on a collecting forum discussion group, what about real life? Anyway, that aside I understand we are all different and take such 'written abuse' differently, but if I could ask if you could try and consider it as a wind-up, and not get too upset, and of course report such posts by clicking the appropriate button. |
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I find it hard to disagree with what you say Mike. (I'll probably get accused of being a sycophant now)!
I can now hear the sound of barking dogs now and either my 2 Labradors have heard someone at the door or my head is full of barking dogs Ivan |
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Well! have read this thread from the very beginning "or what now IS! as original deleted" A SHOCK! those still in contact with Ry & dave please give them my best wishes, it would be appreciated and like you all would wish for them to return, I hope it Happens! as with Andy also as the site is the better for all three,s participation! pity we cant roll back time but apologies have been given and accepted so an end! problem is Dave c has said all messages will be trashed, Ry no longer active i hope someone can convince them both to let it blow over! and Return billy
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I look forwards to Andy progressing in the guise of a militaria/badge dealer and wish him the best of luck for the future in his endeavors. Regards, M |
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Many thanks Andy |
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I'd like to thank Mike and the other moderators for letting the membership discuss this here. I've stayed with the thread and I can see that it's cleared the air for everyone, except for one poor soul who has left because he doesn't like the calm way the membership here conducts itself.
I do. I'm a recent member and I love the civility. It's a great site with some super guys as members.
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Catapultam habeo. Nisi pecuniam omnem mihi dabis, ad caput tuum saxum immane mittam - I have a catapult. Give me all your money, or I will fling an enormous rock at your head. |
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There are always people who will whine about 'ungentlemanly' behaviour, but this is not the officers mess and although we might all like to be treated as VIPs, in reality that ain't gonna happen. Disputes and disagreements sometimes lead to harsh words and heated threads - this is part of life's everyday experience and the forum shouldn't try to hide from it. We are all human, now let's man up! |
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Although Dave is no longer taking messages through the forum he is still available to contact through his own email. I was a bit unsure if he wanted contact at the moment but after having emailed him I'm sure he would be happy to hear from any of the friends he has made here over the last few years. Regards, Paul.
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Good grief,
I haven't really been collecting much over the last year or so, and haven't been on the forum as much as I used to be as I haven't really had too many new purchases to show off or queries. After returning from Bangor earlier with a couple of new badges along with Eddie Parks, I thought I would check in to the forum to see if there was anything of interest. I have to say I was fairly saddened to see such well respected forum members such as Dave and Andy and others considering walking away. I didn't see what the fall out was about, so I can't pass comment on it. All I can say is hang in there guys. I have made quite a few friends through this forum and learned loads. I might not be such a regular poster now, but I was one of the early members, and have seen it grow into a superb source of shared knowledge and networking. To paraphrase Gerry Adams - "I haven't gone away you know" John |
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How sad
I have had a break from the forum for the best part of nine months. I read this thread today and now I remember why..........absolutely appalling
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Blimey seems I have missed a real dust up but what I can say is that often emails are a difficult medium in which to judge the manner in which the message sent . the golden rule is if YOU are annoyed at any comments wait 24 hours to respond because everyone has bad days and I have myself been guilty of getting stroppy over a badge I thought I had bought, that went to some one else . I would suggest that a message is added to the thread when purchasing a badge, before a PM is sent , then a sold notice should go one the item only when payment is received.
I can honestly say that I have had many helping hands since I have joined and guys like Marcus , DaveC and Andy to name a few, have been a great help and fantastic to deal with but more importantly for me I would rather someone told me I had a suspect badge and why, than delude myself . I can only speak personally but no one forces me to buy a badge , the correct price is what ever it sells for on the day. I would add that I buy from those individuals that I know sell genuine items and so I pay a premium for their knowledge. Finally I am a member of a number of technical institutes and opinions on some issue do differ, but unless backed up by empirical evidence they are just that, an opinion. all the best Steve Last edited by Nobbysr; 15-08-15 at 04:17 PM. |
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